Most men stall, but want to wed

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Young men may be delaying marriage, but most are "the marrying kind," a research group says in its annual June report, released yesterday.

Only about one-fifth of 441 young single men surveyed for the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University said that marriage wasn't for them.

The rest said they could see themselves married someday, and many said they would "marry tomorrow, if the right person came along."

This suggests that, contrary to the perception that young men are marriage phobic, "most men are 'the marrying kind,'" said David Popenoe, co-director of the project with Barbara Dafoe Whitehead.

In fact, they said, "the typical 30-something guy is a married guy."

The new study, "The Marrying Kind: Which Men Marry and Why," is featured in the marriage project's annual report, "The State of Our Unions: The Social Health of Marriage in America 2004."

The report shows that U.S. marriage rates are continuing to decline.

Last year, around 57 percent of men 15 and older and 54 percent of women 15 and older were married. Each figure is almost a percentage point lower than in 2000.

In comparison, in 1960 more than 69 percent of men and almost 66 percent of women in the same categories were married.

The median age of marriage for men also has risen, from 23 in 1970 to almost 27.