'Next step' for pro-lifers

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Virginia Catholics are putting their pro-life philosophy into practice with a new home for unwed mothers in Orange County. The Paul Stefan Home for Unwed Mothers, which welcomed its first mother in November, was founded from the combination of the vision of the Rev. Stefan Starzynski and the faithfulness and passion of a couple in his Fredericksburg-area parish.

"This is the next step in the pro-life movement," said Father Starzynski. He is confident that the 1973 Roe v. Wade Supreme Court decision, which struck down most state laws regulating abortion, eventually will be overturned and said Christians will need to be ready to care for millions more unwed mothers as the state moves to protect the unborn.

"It's not about politics. Ultimately, it's because we love these women and these babies," Father Starzynski. "I love this issue because it's a uniting issue."

He said both pro-life and pro-choice advocates could unite behind the idea of loving and supporting unwed mothers, because most pro-choice advocates say they want abortion to be rare.

Because 37 percent of births are to unwed mothers, Father Starzynski said, the church shares responsibility if a young woman feels that she has nowhere to turn but to an abortion clinic.

"For women who want to choose life, and we encourage them to choose life, we want to be able to care for them," said Greg Mueller, a director of the Paul Stefan Foundation.

The home is named for Paul Stefan James, the son of Randy and Evie James, who lived one hour after being born without lungs. Mrs. James was told by her doctor that she should go to Kansas to obtain a late-term abortion. She and her husband refused, then turned to God for strength and guidance throughout the rest of the pregnancy.

On the same day that the couple received the news that the child would be born without lungs, Mrs. James' "Chicken Soup for the Soul" daily calendar had a piece of encouragement for the expectant mother's soul, which referenced a baby with "an amazing set of lungs."

Father Starzynski suggested that Mrs. James read the encouraging words every day, although he suggested that the "amazing set of lungs" may not come in the form of the miracle she expected.

Meanwhile, the priest felt inspired to begin an unwed mothers home. The Jameses soon felt called to become active in the pro-life movement, though they weren't sure what to expect. Paul Stefan was born Dec. 15, 2005, and was baptized before he died. He was named in honor of Father Starzynski and the Rev. Paul Scalia, son of U.S. Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia.