- Associated Press - Thursday, May 12, 2011

MORENA, India — The room is large and airy, the stone floors clean and cool — a welcome respite from the afternoon sun, until your eyes take in the horror that it holds. Ten severely malnourished children — nine of them girls.

The starving girls in this hospital ward include a 21-month-old with arms and legs the size of twigs and an emaciated 1-year-old with huge, vacant eyes. Without urgent medical care, most will not live to see their next birthdays.

Their condition points to a painful reality revealed in India’s most recent census: Despite a booming economy and big cities full of luxury cars and glittering malls, the country is failing its girls.

Early results show India has 914 girls under age 6 for every 1,000 boys. A decade ago, many were horrified when the ratio was 927 to 1,000.

The discrimination happens through abortions of female fetuses and sheer neglect of young girls despite years of high-profile campaigns to address the issue.

**FILE** A sign outside a clinic in Madhya Pradesh warns that revealing the sex of an unborn child is illegal. The law, passed in 1994, is an attempt to cut down on the incidence of sex-selective abortions. (Associated Press)
**FILE** A sign outside a clinic in Madhya Pradesh warns that revealing ... more >

The problem is so serious that it is illegal for medical personnel to reveal the sex of an unborn baby, although evidence suggests the ban is widely circumvented.

“My mother-in-law says a boy is necessary,” said Sanju, holding her severely malnourished 9-month-old daughter in her lap in the hospital.

She does not admit to starving the girl deliberately but only shrugs her own thin shoulders when asked why her daughter is so sick. She will try again for a son in a year or two, she said.

Part of the reason Indians favor sons is the enormous expense in marrying off girls. Families often go into debt arranging marriages and paying elaborate dowries.

A boy, on the other hand, will one day bring home a bride and dowry. Hindu custom also dictates that only sons can light their parents’ funeral pyres.

It is not simply that girls are more expensive for impoverished families. The census data shows that the worst offenders are in the relatively wealthy northern states of Punjab and Haryana.

In Morena, a sun-baked, largely rural district in the heart of India, the numbers are especially grim. The census there showed that just 825 girls for every 1,000 boys in the district made it to their sixth birthday, down from an already troubling 829 a decade ago.

Though abortion is allowed in India, the country banned revealing the sex of unborn children in 1994 in an attempt to halt sex-selective abortions.

Every few years, federal and state governments announce new incentives — from free meals to free education — to encourage people to take care of their girls.

In Morena, a Madhya Pradesh state government program offers poor families with one or two daughters a few hundred dollars for every few years of schooling. They get more than $2,250 when the girls graduate high school.

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