- Associated Press - Tuesday, November 8, 2011

NEW YORK (AP) - His wife couldn’t be there herself to accept her honor. So Mark Kelly, husband of recovering congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords, spoke on her behalf. But, he made clear, his wife was still running the show.

“We went over my remarks very carefully,” Kelly said at Glamour’s Women of the Year awards on Monday. “She’s still in charge.”

Giffords was one of 11 women honored at the Carnegie Hall ceremony, the 21st time the awards have been presented. As always, the assembled group was a formidable mix of brains, guts, entrepreneurship, and yes, glamour.

On that last count, Jennifer Lopez was there, dressed to the nines in a high-slit Versace gown _ her award presented by designer friend Donatella Versace, in fact. She talked about the year’s “ups, and not-so-ups,” the latter a reference to her split with husband Marc Anthony.

“It’s the women in my life that helped me,” she said, tearfully. “The most important thing they taught me is to support other women.”

Lopez’s stardom could be described as supernova-like _ only that word was best reserved for 10-year-old Kathryn Gray, of Canada, one of 21 girls and young women honored at the ceremony by actress Emma Stone. Her achievement? Discovering a real supernova.

Another high point came from an unexpected place, with the appearance of a woman named simply T, who was forced into prostitution as a child and now is an activist trying to stamp out sexual slavery in this country.

“I am just one of many,” said T, or Withelma “T” Ortiz-Macy. She advised the young girls in the audience to “Think about your personal influence.”

The tone for the evening _ solidarity among women _ was set by Glamour’s editor-in-chief, Cindi Leive. “There’s a special place in hell for women who don’t help other women,” she said, to applause. “We didn’t let any of them in tonight.”

Each honoree was presented with her award by someone of equal or often greater fame: Late-night host Chelsea Handler was given her award by friend Jennifer Aniston, who misted up as she praised Handler, even while noting that “Half her life, she is drunk.”

Handler was as direct as she is on TV.

“You really can do what you want. Just get out there and do it,” she said _ expletive removed here.

The world of fashion had a strong presence, naturally.

Tory Burch, a go-to designer for upscale professional women, was introduced by actress Jessica Alba. Burch declared proudly that 80 percent of her employees were women. “Women are our best investment,” she said.

And designer Marc Jacobs wasn’t getting an award _ wrong chromosome _ but he presented one to artist Cindy Sherman, known for conceptual photographs of herself, one of which recently sold for $3.9 million _ a record for a photo.

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