- Associated Press - Friday, February 3, 2012

INDIANAPOLIS (AP) - Tom Coughlin’s pinched face, ever present on the New York Giants‘ sideline during his eight seasons, gives way to a smile more often now. He’ll even crack a one-liner or two.

Funny how a second trip to the Super Bowl in four years can mellow a guy.

In reality, though, the 65-year-old Coughlin is still basically the same coach on the field and definitely the same man off the field.

Discipline, preparedness and execution are his trademarks at the office; family, church and charity work have his attention at home.

,”He is who is he is,” Keli Coughlin, the coach’s daughter, said in a telephone interview Friday, two days before the Giants faced the New England Patriots for the NFL title. “I don’t know if that has ever changed. You know exactly what to expect from him and what he expects from you in return. Everybody can appreciate that or being comfortable because you know where you stand.”

“Have I changed?” Coughlin asked rhetorically. “Probably, but I think it’s important as the process of learning. You learn, develop, and change every year. You have to bring a fresh approach each year to your team, especially when you’ve been doing it a few years in the same place. If I’ve changed, it’s been an attempt to motivate and put us in the best possible chance that we can be.”

A history buff, especially military history, Coughlin acknowledges he’s more patient now than earlier in his career. When a player did something wrong, the coach would be all over him immediately. Now, he picks his spots.

The one thing that hasn’t changed is his open-door policy.

Have a problem? He wants to know about it and talk about it.

That’s what he did when safety Antrel Rolle was unhappy with the defense earlier this season and when defensive captain Justin Tuck struggled with shoulder, toe and groin injuries.

Coughlin simply told Tuck to stop focusing on them.

“I think it was, more or less, him seeing that I wasn’t mentally where I needed to be as a football player,” Tuck recalled. “He knew what I’d been going through the whole year as far as the injuries, family issues off the field and things like that. It was more of one of those father-figure things where he called me in his office and just had the conversation like a man-to-man type thing. It wasn’t necessarily about football, but just about how he wanted me to be perceived in the locker room.”

The outspoken Rolle questioned much of what the Giants did in 2010, and felt Coughlin was trying to turn players into men when they were already men. And he resented it.

“Once I matured enough … I took a step back: He is not trying to turn us into men, he is trying to help us become better men,” Rolle said.

Giants offensive coordinator Kevin Gilbride has worked with Coughlin 10 years, in Jacksonville and New York, and laughs when asked about the “new” Tom Coughlin..

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