NEW YORK (AP) - For do-most-of-it-yourself brides, wedding planning means lists, lists and more lists, with some spreadsheets thrown in for good measure. There are also the long, endlessly pored-over documents of vows, readings, even toasts. Did I mention lists?
Enter Google Docs, the search company’s free, easy-to-use online document software. With templates for the spreadsheet-challenged and a slew of pretty Web tools, the service is like the perfect bridesmaid. She’s calm, collected and full of good ideas but not overly pushy, letting you steer the ship. She’s there when you need her.
I started earnestly planning my April 2011 wedding around this time last year. After lots of pen-on-paper scribbling, I decided to join the 21st century and move my planning online. Do you have a wedding, civil union or other commitment ceremony coming up this year? Let good old Google help.
I picked Google’s tools over dedicated wedding-planning websites such as The Knot for a few reasons:
_ I didn’t want to be bombarded with girly girl ads, think-inside-the-box advice and expensive “must-have” lists. No flower girls, cutesy favors or bright bridesmaids’ dresses for us (though we did have bridesmens’ suits).
_ Finally, I’ve been using Gmail since 2004 without a hitch (I’ll just let Buzz slide). I saw no reason why I shouldn’t let Google help me get hitched.
To start, I armed myself with a to-do checklist from the popular wedding blog Offbeat Bride _ another invaluable Web tool for independently spirited brides.
With my fiance and now husband, I took to Google Docs for our first task. We listed friends and family members we hoped would share our special day. With a set budget and relatively small families, this wasn’t too difficult.
The next step, a bit more so. Because so few people send cards and letters through the mail these days, one of the more annoying tasks in planning a wedding is hounding your friends and relatives for their mailing addresses.
Google Docs has automated this with a simple email template. Once you’re on Google’s weddings site at http://www.google.com/weddings, you can click “Plan” in the top right corner. This will take you to a set of planning documents. Select “Address Book” from that list, then click on “use this template.”
You can use that to send a form email to your guests, complete with a pretty picture of a wedding cake or whatever else theme you pick (“Wall St.” anyone?).
The email has boxes that your guests can fill in with their street, city and other address information, along with their phone number and any comments. When friends and family send that back, Google automatically adds the information to a spreadsheet. You can then tweak the spreadsheet to add columns for meal choices and other such details.
Easy-peasy right? Sort of. Our young, tech-savvy friends responded quickly, and soon we had a spreadsheet with about half of our guests. But some people didn’t seem to know what to do with the form. Others thought it was spam. I had to send regular emails, not pretty forms, to some people, saying hey, that form was not spam, please fill it out.
For many couples, there might also be those older folks who do not use the Internet at all and need to be called to get addresses.View Entire Story
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