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SIMMONS: The value of the military’s life lessons
Question of the Day
Women now are demanding the right to be crippled in combat, raped as prisoners of war and treated like men in an oxymoronic “gender neutral” armed forces environment.
For men, the draft is no more, but Mr. Crockett, unlike many of today’s misdirected youths, figured his life’s prospects would greatly improve if he could fulfill his dream of flying.
No. The all-volunteer U.S. military isn’t what it used to be during the Cold War and neither are today’s coming-of-age youths, who could use the hard-nosed, lifelong lessons of basic training to better appreciate humankind, gain healthier attitudes about their bodies, experience true camaraderie - and be doused with a strong dose of authority.
“Young people need to be taught how to be responsible for themselves, their buddies and their fellow man,” said Mrs. Matthews, who enlisted in the Army after graduating from Schenley High School and finding her employment prospects limited to domestic work. “If teenagers went through a few months of basic training, there wouldn’t be a whole lot of gangs, bullying and fighting. They’re looking for love, respect and family in all the wrong places.
“Basic was tough, even for women” said Mrs. Matthews, who was trained at Fort McClellan in Alabama and later stationed at Fort Bragg in North Carolina. “You’re told when to get up, eat and go to bed. You’re up when the stars are still in sky, falling in formation, running exercises and calisthenics, and [attending] weaponry classes.
“We [women] didn’t serve combat roles. Most of us were supporters with office and administrative duties, and that was fine,” said the now-retired retail worker, who left the Army after marrying a soldier she met at Fort Bragg.
“I was working at the Navy Yard and remembered a Navy guy at Howard University passing out material,” he said. “I wanted to fly, having watched those World War II movies. I went to the [Anacostia] Naval Air Station, passed the written and physical exams and in 1955 went to Pensacola [Fla.], and I was stationed at Patuxent [in Maryland].”
Now retired from the military, IBM and Howard as an information-technology official, Mr. Crockett spends much of his time at the nation’s first black high school, Dunbar High in Northwest, which for decades was one of America’s premier secondary schools.
Would basic training help turn lost youths into respectable and honorable young men and women?
“You find out a lot about yourself in the military,” Mr. Crockett said. “The Marines ran an indoctrination battalion [and] after a while you figure out you’re all in this together and band together. Guys would help one another.
“I think that’s the thing to tell youngsters,” he continued. “I’m active with Dunbar alumni, in the school a couple of two, three times a week, and talk with those who are willing to talk.”
I chose to honor this Memorial Day by speaking with a man and a woman who volunteered to served their country. I met Mr. Crockett through one of his longtime buddies, social commentator and Navy veteran Bill Cosby, who was stationed in Argentina, Newfoundland, and the D.C. area during the Cold War.
Mrs. Matthews happens to be my aunt and is the oldest living woman on my mother’s side of the family to have served in America’s armed forces.
We don’t focus enough on women who served or are serving in the military unless the story spins on gender-related issues, and although neither Mr. Crockett nor Mrs. Matthews cast aspersions on “gender neutrality” and other controversial issues regarding the military, both said they would volunteer and man-up, so to speak, all over again - and that’s the point we should drive home to young people.
So on this Memorial Day, thank these two veterans, pay homage to all of their peers, and never forget the 36,574 Americans who gave their lives in the Korean War.
• Deborah Simmons can be reached at firstname.lastname@example.org
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Award-winning opinion writer Deborah Simmons is a senior correspondent who reports on City Hall and writes about education, culture, sports and family-related topics. Mrs. Simmons has worked at several newspapers, and since joining The Washington Times in 1985, has served as editorial-page editor and features editor and on the metro desk. She has taught copy editing at the University of ...
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