Furor fades a year after lifting of military’s gay ban

NEW YORK (AP) — They are images Americans had never seen before. Jubilant young men and women in military uniforms marching beneath a rainbow flag in a gay-pride parade. Soldiers and sailors returning from deployment and, in time-honored tradition, embracing their beloved — only this time with same-sex kisses.

It’s been a year now since the policy known as “don’t ask, don’t tell” was repealed, enabling gay and lesbian members of the military to serve openly, no longer forced to lie and keep their personal lives under wraps.

The Pentagon says the repeal has gone smoothly, with no adverse effect on morale, recruitment or readiness. President Obama cites it as a signature achievement of his first term, and his Republican challenger, Mitt Romney, says he would not push to reverse the change if elected in November.

Some critics persist with complaints that the repeal has infringed on service members whose religious faiths condemn homosexuality. Instances of anti-gay harassment have not ended, and activists are frustrated that gay and lesbian military families don’t yet enjoy the benefits and services extended to other military families.

Yet the clear consensus is that repeal has produced far more joy and relief than dismay and indignation. There’s vivid evidence in photographs that have rocketed across cyberspace, such as the military contingent marching in San Diego’s gay pride parade and Marine Sgt. Brandon Morgan leaping into the arms of his boyfriend after returning from six months in Afghanistan.

Tens of thousands of people clicked the “like” button for the photo on Facebook, and Sgt. Morgan acknowledged it was “a great moment in history.”

“But when it comes down to it, we didn’t intend for this go to worldwide,” he said. “We were just happy to be together.”

There have been many such milestones since repeal took effect on Sept. 20, 2011:

• In December, a lesbian sailor won the right to the coveted “first kiss” when the USS Oak Hill returned to port in Virginia after 80 days at sea. The crowd on hand to welcome the ship screamed in delight and waved flags as Petty Officer 2nd Class Marissa Gaeta shared a kiss with her partner, Citlalic Snell — a moment captured in a YouTube clip that drew 1.5 million viewers.

• In June, Air Force Tech. Sgt. Erwynn Umali and his civilian partner were united in a civil union ceremony at the chapel at Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst in New Jersey, with a Navy chaplain presiding.

• In August, longtime Army officer Tammy Smith became the military’s first openly gay general. Her wife, Tracey Hepner, did the honors of pinning on the general’s star during the promotion ceremony.

Gen. Smith and Ms. Hepner were married in March in the District of Columbia, one of many same-sex couples inspired to wed when they no longer had to conceal relationships. Among other newlyweds are Air Force Maj. Adrianna Vorderbruggen and her civilian wife, Heather Lamb, who married in June and are raising a 17-month-old son near Washington.

Ms. Lamb said she had attended a squadron family and spouse support event and was recognized by the commander during Maj. Vorderbruggen’s recent promotion ceremony.

“None of it could have happened before repeal,” Ms. Lamb said.

Another couple, Marine Maj. Alisdair Mackay and Stephen Peters, were married last December in New York shortly before Maj. Mackay began a one-year deployment to Afghanistan. Mr. Peters, a former Marine discharged under “don’t ask, don’t tell” in 2007, said the post-repeal experience had been wonderful, by and large, for him and Maj. Mackay.

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