"At a young age we instilled in our kids discipline, structure and basically this is how it's going to operate in this household, and there's really no room for negotiation," said Jacqueline, 46. "We didn't have to constantly spank them or whatever to get the point across. They knew this is how it is."
"We always lead by example," Jacqueline said. "My husband told him I'm not coming up there without a job. I'm not coming up there to live off you because that's not who I am and not who I raised you to be."