Great coach offers Dynamite summer

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"Hi, Coach," I said, cradling the phone between my right ear and shoulder. "I need to know what your thoughts are on cups." The topic had struck me as I folded a basketful of my son's clothes.

"Cups?" said my son's baseball coach.

"Yeah, cups. I need to go shopping, and I'm not sure if I should buy a cup before tomorrow's game."

"I think a water bottle will be fine," Coach said.

Thus began the season for coach Peter Dewan, the leader of this year's baseball dynasty in our recreation department's Bronco League under-12 division. Little did he know when he took on his role as baseball coach that his job description would include a discussion of intimate athletic apparel with an inexperienced mother.

The coach didn't have a ready answer to my question, but when it comes to teaching a group of boys about the great American pastime, he's a coach who knows his game.

These days, coaches play a huge role in the lives of our children. Orchestrating the activities that keep them moving through the seasons, coaches have the power to make our children's athletic experiences positive or negative -- regardless of the team's win-loss record.

After eight years watching from the sidelines, I have concluded that it's unlikely that our mailbox someday will be stuffed with recruiting offers from the country's finer sports programs. Developing their athletic potential is only one of many reasons we encourage our children to play sports.

When it comes to participating in athletics, I count on our children's coaches to help us prepare them for something more than a sports career. I'm looking for life lessons, the ones that apply to the "big game" -- adulthood.

Good coaches can teach perseverance, inspiring an unexpected burst of growth and maturity in a child who has no concept of his own abilities. They make it fun to compete because they know that even a losing score can teach a winning lesson -- how to be gracious.