Mary Chesnut's diary about South

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It is just as well Harriet Beecher Stowe knew nothing about Mary Chesnut.

The child of fervently puritanical parents and driven by her abolitionist beliefs to write "Uncle Tom's Cabin," Stowe created an incredibly successful and influential novel although she had no firsthand knowledge of her subject. It was serialized in the National Era in 1851, in the year before it appeared in book form.

Stowe was convinced that all slaveholders were brutish oppressors (as some undoubtedly were), but what would she have made of Mary Boykin Miller, who as a young girl taught slaves on two plantations to read and write although this was strictly forbidden in South Carolina? Both she and the man she married were opposed to slavery.

In every regard, Mary Chesnut, as she became, was a remarkable woman. On the one hand a witty and popular gossip, she was on the other shrewd, perceptive, lacking in illusions and capable of writing a highly personal work the like of which, at a time of uncertainty and danger, had never appeared before, nor has again.

Hardly likely to revise her beliefs, Stowe probably would have dismissed Mary as an irrelevance, an aberration of the plantocracy.

Mary was born March 31, 1823, at Pleasant Hill, a plantation near Camden, but grew up on Plane Hill, another one, near Statesburg. She was the first child of Stephen Decatur Miller, for a time governor of South Carolina, and the former Mary Boykin, who was 19 when her daughter was born. A bright youngster, Mary entered Madame Talvande's French School for Young Ladies in Charleston in 1835, and when she left in 1838, she spoke French fluently. She had been well-educated.

She was just 17 when in 1840 she married James Chesnut Jr., the son of wealthy parents, and settled at Mulberry, a luxurious plantation home where all the Chesnuts resided. Taking little or no part in the running of the plantation but sometimes acting as a hostess, Mary seems to have been contented enough.

James served first in the state legislature and then in 1855 became a U.S. senator. By nature gregarious, if at time capable of caustic comment, Mary had a well-attended salon in Washington. She became and remained a close friend of Varina Davis, future first lady of the Confederacy, although at first the two women did not get on well.

Then came secession. James Chestnut resigned, and back they went to Mulberry before moving to Montgomery and then to Richmond after Virginia left the Union. The Chesnuts' marriage was childless; perhaps that was just as well, considering what was to befall them.

Mary never lost her distaste of slavery. As a child on her paternal grandparents' plantation, she had rescued a slave there from illiteracy with her grandmother's consent. It was an establishment where slaves were treated humanely. She again broke the law at Mulberry, also with family permission, by teaching other slaves to read and write.