Priesthood is the family business

Three brothers answer calling to join clergy

MILWAUKEE — When Luke Strand started college nine years ago, he wanted to earn a marketing degree, a job in the business world, then a house and children.

Now he’s a priest and that’s not all. His brother, Vincent, is on his way to being ordained a Jesuit priest and their youngest brother, Jake, was ordained in the spring.

The family calling is remarkable at a time when fewer men, especially in the U.S., are joining the Roman Catholic clergy. More than 3,200 of the 17,800 U.S. parishes don’t have resident priests, according to the Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate at Georgetown University. As of last year, the total number of priests in the U.S. had decreased 14 percent from 2000.

So why did three men from one family sacrifice what they thought they wanted in their lives to become priests? Even their family was blindsided. The brothers’ parents, who live in Dousman, Wis., never encouraged it or discouraged it — they just never discussed it.

“It takes you off guard, [having] one after the other come and talk to us,” said their mother, Bernadette Strand.

The boys went to Catholic grade school, attended church every Sunday and prayed before dinner but weren’t “eccentric,” according to their father, Jerry. Their aunt is a member of the Poor Clare Sisters in Kokomo, Ind. His mother, Ruth, said she and her husband hoped one of their grandsons would join the priesthood.

“Grandma would always say, ‘Maybe one of you boys is going to be a priest’ and I think we’d just laugh: ‘Whatever, grandma.’ I mean we’re not going to study to be a priest,” Luke Strand said.

They say they all discovered their calling at the end of high school or college. All three wrestled with the decision for years, mainly because of the celibacy vow.

The first to attend seminary was the oldest, Luke, now 31 and described as the peacemaker and most social.

He said he started getting involved in the campus ministry at the University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh and found a lot of young people “getting fired up for the faith.” By his senior year, he found himself living with a priest in a homeless shelter “radically serving the poor and applying to the seminary. And I remember thinking to myself: ‘How did I get here? Like, what’s this all about?’ And ultimately it was about service in the church.”

He’s now working as vocations director for the Milwaukee Archdiocese, recruiting priests.

Described as the family academic, Vincent Strand, 29, is studying German in Austria as part of his 11 years of formation before he’s ordained.

He said his calling came at Marquette University, a Jesuit school in Milwaukee. Much like Luke, he wanted to make a lot of money as a neurologist, get married and have children.

“I do distinctly remember thinking: ‘Oh good. [Luke‘s] going to be the priest. I don’t have to now.’ “

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